How to Find Love and Keep It

Nikki Mendell | 3WCircle Marketing Director

When looking for a loving relationship, beware of the danger of. When we face a disappointment or hurdle, it may be tempting to shut down. After a bad date, a fight, or a breakup, you might crawl into bed, grab a pint of ice cream, and dive into a House of Cards marathon. You may spend all of your time blaming him for how he failed you. You may get discouraged after drinks with another weirdo. That is inertia.

This week in our most recent 3WCircleWorkshop, “The Magic Behind Real Loving Relationships (With Yourself and Others),” Donnalynn Civello, Executive Director of and Certified Intuitive Life Coach, taught us that instead of letting hard situations set you back, you have to find a way to keep moving forward.

The group of women at the workshop, both in and seeking relationships, learned that living a dynamic life leads to healthy relationships. How to research the best literary agents for your suitable source book. Think of it like this: You get what you give.

Here are a few of Donnalynn’s key rules to having a healthy, loving relationship:

  • Key Rule #1: Learn to love yourself first. Learn what makes you awesome and

    there any love rules that you abide by in your life? Tell us in the comments below.

    To learn more of Donnalynn’s rules and tips on how to attract and keep the right relationship, we encourage you to visit her website: and follow her on Twitter at


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